LGBT Relationship Counselling (Est. 2010)
Are you in a same-sex relationship? One where you're failing to understand each other? Finding yourselves unable to resolve conflicts?Celebrating his 26th year, trust LGBT Couples, Throuples & Group Counselling from the Experienced, Independent Gay Relationship Counsellor: Dean Richardson MNCPS (Accred/Reg). We'll develop (re-)solutions helping your distinct partnership.Dean is a skilled, non-pathologising, British Therapist, working with gay relationships across the UK over Secure Video. He established this service in 2010 to offer Relationship Therapy focussed exclusively on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Asexual, Queer Intimate Connections. Expertise that's reassuring for cisgender, transgender & gender-agnostic.…so much more than just another ally. Relationship Counselling Services for LGBTQ+Book a Counselling AppointmentMy mother used to say: “it’s impossible to hate anyone whose story you know…“
This is the Assistance you’ve been Seeking…
Pro LGBTQ+ Relationships ❤️🩹
Relationship therapy can help LGBTQ+ partners untangle complicated, unhappy relationship behaviours. Counselling can be short-term (with a specific goal) or a longer journey of relationship work and self-exploration combined. At first, it might not be clear what your counselling experience will be like, but as the therapy progresses, we develop a path together that helps you and your partner(s).
Instead of “marriage guidance“ (a very old term!), Counsellor Dean offers a more effective relationship solution for LGBTQ+ partners in conflict (so there’s no prescribing: “here’s how to do things ‘right’!”). It’s an effective therapeutic approach that you will learn to apply too.
Established in 2010 to offer counselling support to LGBTQ+ partners in long-distance relationships, Dean expanded these services during the COVID-19 pandemic. From 2020, couples, throuples and groups discovered how beneficial video counselling could be for their most precious of relationship(s).
A bespoke therapy that is especially suited to partners who don’t want to (or are unable to) travel to a counsellor’s office every week.
LGBTQ+ Relationship Counselling Services…
Trustworthy Services
This is an exceptional online counselling service, providing private and effective support for our LGBT+ Community. When our relationships are in trouble, we’ll develop (re-)solutions that help gay, lesbian, and queer partners comprehend themselves, their behaviours, and their significant other(s) better than before.
You may think: “we’ve tried everything, but nothing works!”. You may feel shame or embarrassment; maybe not wanting others to know that you’re working with a counsellor. Yet a wide range of LGBTQ+ partners found Dean’s approach to relationship counselling surprisingly effective… and as they developed their own ways of tackling conflicts, then they felt relief!
You too could make use of this mature, accessible therapy service to help you enhance the most precious of all of your relationships.
Getting Started
You may be hesitant to see a relationship therapist, but you and your partner won’t be the first to think about relationship therapy. Things go wrong in all kinds of relationships, whether they are romantic, friendship-based, group relationships, or casual ones.
So, all close relationships have times when there is tension, disagreement, or distress. Sometimes there’s no sexual arousal. Sometimes there is mean or abusive behaviour. When our partners betray our trust, some of us may feel insecure or threatened. We don’t like feeling vulnerable, and by avoiding confrontations (or turning a blind eye), we sooth ourselves by managing insecure feelings. But things don’t change.
Whatever your problems are, an important thing to notice is that you are facing this hurt… together, and we can work through this… together.
Counselling Choices 🏳️🌈
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Couples CounsellingWe’ll tailor a therapeutic approach that works for your couple needs, This encourages your active participation with space for your ideas, concerns, and hypotheses. Learn about couple counselling |
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Throuples CounsellingWe’ll help you define your trio’s specific needs, develop ways to resolve conflicts, embracing your ideas and hypotheses, gaining new insight. Learn about throuple counselling |
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Group CounsellingPolyamorous groups (up to 8 people) work in an alliance, addressing relationship needs together and developing ideas that can resolve conflicts. Learn about group counselling |
Issues Addressed
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Relationship BreakupsWhether planned or a surprise, relationship endings can be tough. Counselling helps you deconstruct the relationship and say farewell. Learn about breakups |
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Sexual DysfunctionSecondary sexual dysfunction is an emotional or cognitive impediment to a satisfying sex life. Counselling can help. Learn about sexual engagement |
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Open RelationshipsOpen relationships fail when mistakes prevail. Contracting can be an effective approach. We’ll discuss your needs and help define your rules and guides. Learn about open relationships |
Media & Fees
LGBTCoupleCounselling.co.uk is a good choice when bad things keep happening. Especially when we come to the realisation that our efforts to fix things on our own haven’t been working too well lately.
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Meet your Counsellor…
Experienced Counsellor
This is knowledge that may assist you in applying to your own relationships; you may learn how to spot what’s going wrong earlier, and then apply your own creatively constructed resolutions. So, if you’re wondering why you’d choose Counsellor Dean Richardson MNCPS (Accred/Reg), well, as a British LGBTQ+ relationship specialist therapist, now entering his 26th year of experienced practice, these are just a handful of reasons why you’d begin to think “yes!”.
Why Trust Dean?
You may be asking: “Does Dean’s approach seem trustworthy to us?” and I might have an answer…
Hi… I’m Dean… and I’m an actual gay relationship counsellor! 👋🏻 (tada… *polite applause*).
I work as a fully qualified, British, private counsellor offering an essential, effective, supportive, non-judgemental, and non-pathologising online relationship counselling service. It’s a therapy service dedicated to our fabulously gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual, aromantic, queer, and straight couple, throuple and polyamorous / ethically non-monogamous families 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️.
LGBT/QIA+ Relationship Counsellor:
Dean Richardson MNCPS (Accred/Reg)
Is LGBT-Focussed Counselling a Priority
While most professional counselling membership organisations now frown upon members who have declined to work with lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people, they also allow their members to decide for themselves their own rationale for declining to work with us and our relationships (sometimes citing religious beliefs, personal moral reservations, etc).
“Frown upon”? Indeed… 🤔.
Even in 2024, and with the Memorandum of Understanding #2, I believe that the attitudes that have excluded LGBT/QIA+ partners from accessing relationship therapy remain unfathomably uninformed and considerably last-century.
Non-Judgementally Queer
You may have seen on search engines and social media advertisements that include phrases like: “biblical traditional marriages!”. We wonder to ourselves if “biblical” is code for: “We welcome heterosexuals!” 🤷♀️. Looking at the websites, we can confidently conclude that this is exactly what is meant.
The therapy approach available here focuses on the needs of our LGBTQIA+ community.
I don’t take a judgmental position about “what a normal queer partnership would do here is…”. Instead, I use a systemic approach that is effective, allows me to be used by the partners in a neutral manner (e.g. I don’t take sides), and invites the relationship to begin discovering how powerful the partners become in developing their own effective ways of dealing with their own relationship problems.
You haven’t found this attitude elsewhere? I know, right?! 😉
You gotta werk it, bish…
Trusting Counselling
You may already have a good idea of what you want to work at in relationship counselling. You now need to trust Dean as your counsellor (along with trusting your partner(s), and the counselling process).
You’ll want to learn how relationship counselling can help you deal with and stay safe from (sometimes) very serious, honest, and upsetting topics. You’ll want to discover how you might make use of counselling (not necessarily how others use it; your needs will be distinct from theirs). You will want the therapy process to evolve into one that is tailored to your own relationship’s needs. You’ll want to know that you can use this process at home, too.
It doesn’t matter how much experience Dean has in assisting other lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, fluid, and asexual struggling partners; it’s about the trust that grows from your work with Dean.
How Our Work Develops
I will not try to explain how a counselling process develops that’s unique to each LGBTQ+ partnership, but I can tell you that you and your partner(s) will work with Dean in a therapeutic alliance—one where we all have a say, have ideas, and figure things out together.
This is not a prescriptive process (you describe your problems, and the counsellor tells you what to do). Honestly, Dean doesn’t have such a right! Instead, therapy becomes a safe place where we look at what’s not working and consider substitutions that could work better.
This is the kind of process you’ll want to experience firsthand, to see and feel that it’s maturing sufficiently to handle the work we have ahead of us.
This is how we will proceed: in a clear, trusting alliance that takes the best of what you have and rebuilds the worst of it into the kind of healthy relationship that you want… together.
Why video counselling is the service to choose…
Video Advantages
Video Conferencing Therapy: the ideal solution you’d forgotten all about!
Even in terms of geographic locations, he may be many miles away from your hometown, but he can be right there on your computer, laptop, or smartphone every week.
Why Video Counselling Works.
Why didn’t you consider video counselling? I’ll bet that because it’s been a few years since we were all required to use video technology (in order to stay in our homes). You hadn’t considered that the medium remains the preferred option in a number of significant circumstances. Let’s take a look why…
Top 3 Reasons Partners choose Video Counselling
- Convenience and Accessibility: Offers partners the flexibility to receive counselling from the safety and/or comfort of their home. There’s no requirement to travel to a therapist’s office. This is particularly helpful when one or both of you are away from your partner during the week for work or travel. You can call in remotely (from your office, hotel room, or even a quiet park bench) to meet with your partner and counsellor.
- Cost-Effectiveness: Regularly more affordable than in-person therapy (even before costs of commuting, parking, and childcare). If you’re living in a major city (Brighton, Edinburgh, London, Liverpool, Manchester), then remote video counselling won’t attract a high pricing structure, regional weighting, or income supplement as counsellors working from your home town.
- Increased Privacy: Video provides a more private and comfortable setting (e.g. calling from home) for partners to discuss sensitive issues. They can choose a private and quiet space in their location that is free from distractions. This can give them more confidence to express their worries without concern about interruptions or strangers overhearing them.
Did You Know: ‘Location’ has very little to do with a counsellor’s practice quality, training, or experience?
You’re in just as safe and effective hands working with a remote, video counsellor as with a local one!
So, these are just three advantages of video counselling for LGBTQ+ couples, throuples and groups. They make a compelling argument for meeting with your professional relationship counsellor over Zoom, Skype, Meetup, and other secure video conferencing apps.
Can you now think of a reason not to engage in video counselling?
It may not be obvious how many therapy services are not…
A British Online Counselling Service
Unlike USA-based services targeting Britons through Social Media advertising – such as BetterHelp, Best Online Therapy Services and Pride Counseling (sic) (hint: we Brits spell “counselling” with TWO Ls 😉) – LGBT Couple Counselling .co.uk is British owned, hosted and operated!
Plus, Dean Richardson MNCPS (Accred/Reg) is registered within the UK (see: Professional Standards Authority #NCS15-02454), unlike therapists that operate from, and are licensed from, abroad (unregulated in the UK).
British Expatriate Support
As an online relationship counsellor, Dean reaches British expatriate LGBT partners living abroad as easily as you driving to your local therapy centre.
Your county may not provide LGBT+ focussed therapists. This service works using the secure and reliable video conferencing that you have easy access to, and may already use.
Learn about expatriate counselling…Spotting Overseas Services
When you know what to look for, therapy services operating from abroad are easy to identify. Especially the ones not being very transparent about it.
Learn how to easily judge if the therapy service being advertised on your social media timeline is accurate, true, and really the one that you and your partner is seeking.
Learn to spot overseas services…