Professional, Trustworthy LGBT /QIA+ Specialism

Dean Richardson is happy to call himself an Out and Proud Gay Couple Therapist. He has developed trust from his private practice over 22+ years. His experienced years include 14 years of Zoom/Skype video tele-therapy that focused on the needs of gay relationships.

Dean began his therapist training in psychodynamic counselling / psychotherapy back in 1999. After five years hard work he was proud to earn his Diploma in Psychodynamic Counselling accredited via the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy , within the Accredited Training Centre:  Chichester Counselling Services (West Sussex).

Having worked in charity for ten years, Dean’s supervisor and mentor, Sue Esau, advised him to expand his therapy practice. He could train in couple therapy. The enticing point was that Dean would be welcomed by gay male couples. As Sue put it, from her wealth of experience, “gay couples often ask to work with a gay couple therapist…”.

Dean qualified with a Post Graduate Diploma in Psychodynamic / Systemic Couple Counselling (Chichester / BACP Accredited) in 2010.  He began focussing his practice offering gay couple therapy.

His training fully addressed the needs of couples in therapy. There was scope to address the unique needs of gay & lesbian couples. Remember, Dean’s mentor said that homosexual guys in couples would be asking for him. gay couples ask for a gay counsellor. To meet this demand, Dean began informative post-graduate research. He focussed well on  the specific needs of homosexual couples from therapy. He continues effectively applying this research today.

Once characterising himself as “the only gay (couple counsellor) in the village” Dean practices over the Internet meeting trusting gay couples from across the whole United Kingdom.

Gay Relationship Therapist for LGBT+
Gay Couple Therapy with Men

Gay Couple Therapy

Gay Couple Therapy from an actual gay couple therapist! With over 22 years of counselling therapy experience, 11 years of which working specifically with gay & lesbian couples as a speciality, plus 14 years of actual Internet Video Therapy experience, Dean Richardson is the British online therapist LGBT/QIA+ relationships trust.

Dean’s professional therapy services are centred in Hampshire, and reach gay couples (at least in 2021) as far as Sussex, Dorset, Surrey, Merseyside, Greater Manchester and Scotland. You don’t have to be a gay couple seeking therapy locally within the UK to work with Dean. As long as you’re a UK citizen or live in the UK, Dean’s practice covers the therapy work we have to do together.

Dean is also available for gay couple therapy Nationwide across the UK via Internet Video (“tele-therapy”) provided your broadband is of suitable speed and quality. You can use your Smartphones (as many gay couples already do – it works very well) or your office laptops.

Interested in learning more about therapy for gay couples over the Internet?

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A Potted Professional History

Highlights of Dean’s 22 years’ professional journey.

  • (1998 – 99) – Adult Education Certification in Counselling Skills (RSA).
  • (1999 – 03) Diploma in psychodynamic counselling for individuals.
  • (1999 – c.2015) Counsellor, Assessor, Support Trainer, IT Manager: Chichester Counselling Services.
  • (2009) Training in online counselling (Internet based, video conferencing, written-text / SMS / Email).
  • (2009 – 10) Diploma in psychodynamic/systemic counselling for couples.
  • (2010) Establishes Dean Richardson Counselling, private practice based in Portsmouth & Chichester.
  • (2011) Group training via Institute of Group Analysis National Foundation.
  • (2011) Established LGBT Couple Counselling to focus therapy for gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual & queer couples and groups.
  • (2014 – 18) Joined the Marple Cross Centre LLP (Southsea private therapy centre) as co-director.
  • (2019-) dedicated focus to LGBTCoupleCounselling.co.uk during the UK pandemic/lockdowns.
Professional Counselling History

LGBTQ+ Relationship Therapy Services

Positive Gay Therapy is a specialism of Dean’s. It’s interesting for a fully qualified & experienced gay therapist to concentrate his services on gay counselling. It’s also a very gratifying therapeutic specialty. It’s also beneficial in the counties of Hampshire, Sussex, and Dorset (South of England) where access to LGBT Counselling Services – as a primary need – may be limited.

However, a gay man needs more than simply a psychotherapy diploma. A fundamental study of gay human development is required for effective gay counselling. A deep appreciation of homosexual/diverse psychological development benefits the counsellor to help those seeking counselling. This, regardless of the issues being sexuality-related or not. Think: the difference between a the counsellor appreciating that you had to come out at some stage (aka the cuckoo in the family nest), and one who never considers you might have had to.

It is appropriate and beneficial to provide gay counselling via a private counselling practice. Even better, the gay client is addressed as a person first, rather than as a sexual identity.

Dean Richardson – over 22 years has made such studies and approaches a central core of his practice. His counselling practice is guided by the following principles: deal with the client’s problems first, and respect the sexuality at the same time. Do not treat sexuality as an ailment.

Gay counselling can be effective & beneficial. Whether your sexual identity is as source of struggle, or is simply a part of who you are. You will be valued and respected regardless of who and how you identify.

Gay Counselling - Putting the Human in you First

LGBT Relationship Support Therapist

Why go straight when there’s a local Gay Relationship Therapist right here! A therapist specialising in gay men, lesbian woman; all sorts of mixed sexuality partnerships and gender identity partners. Plus he’s within reach to UK residents.

This is not just about any relationship. It’s about your distinct relationship.

Hi 👋🏻 – I’m Dean Richardson MNCS(Accred/Reg), a fully qualified & experienced gay therapist with over 22 years counselling expertise (11 years in relationship counselling & 14 years in telecounselling Zoom, Skype etc). 👍🏻

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Zoom/Skype – Remote Counselling in Realtime

It’s good to know that Dean’s counselling services are available both daytime and evenings (weekdays) by prior arrangement. It’s even better knowing that the video apps used to connect with Dean are free of charge. Dean is pleased to support Zoom, Skype, Whatsapp, Google Meet and others*.

Realtime Video Conferencing apps are easily installed on your Smartphone, PC, Mac, or Chromebook. They provide a superb experience talking to your counsellor, using your device’s built-in camera & microphone. You and your spouse will be speaking with your counsellor in real-time. No recording a video, transmitting it and then waiting for a reply.

For the best performance, have a decent broadband service (4Mbps downstream & 3Mbps upsteam is ideal). To get the best counselling experience, you and your partner(s) will use one video devices each. Even better, you’ll be sitting in separate rooms (this is explained in the link below).

Dean added video counselling to his portfolio some 14+ years ago. He’s very experienced at teleconferencing. When compared to some of the counsellors who added basic video therapy when the UK emergency situation in 2020 began, Dean’s accumulated levels of experience is impressive.

*iOS-exclusive services are excluded… simply he doesn’t have an Apple iPhone nor a Mac.

LGBT Couple Counselling on Video

Questions Gay Couples Ask of Therapy

Can I go to a Counsellor when I’m in a Gay Relationship?

You certainly can! We’re not talking just about Dean Richardson as a therapist for gay couples therapy, neither. A majority of British couple counsellors like to work with many forms of couple relationships. Some may exclude certain couples*. This includes family (“mother / son”). My old mentor would say: “You know how to keep two people safe in the room, so…”.

Some couple counsellors struggle with prior knowledge and understanding of gay men’s need. This can make within couple therapy challenging for everyone. Your choice of counsellor may take this into consideration.

(*This hasn’t always been the case, and some counsellors will decline to work with gay men citing religious/biblical reasons… in 2021 🤔)

Questions Gay Couples Ask of a Counsellor

We’re 400 miles away – can we still work with you?

You certainly can! Dean works exclusively on video counselling for gay men, women and gender-neutral or transitioned/ing people using Zoom, Skype, Whatsapp and more.

Dean also works with long-distance gay relationships (eg the three of us are Zoom calling from three separate countries). Provided everyone’s broadband connection is of a decent quality, Zoom counselling will be a good experience. 

Read more about Long Distance Couple Counselling.

 

Can Gay Friends use Counselling?

You certainly can! Couple Counselling is not just for traditional (you get me?!) marriages, but effective for <strong>any form</strong> of two-people-relationship, including family relationships, friends, business colleagues, flat mates and so on.

So if your friendship is in trouble, or you and your business partner are in conflict, or you and your (twin?) brother need to clear the air – couple counselling with gay couple counsellor Dean Richardson would be an ideal choice to consider. 

Are you a “Licensed Counselor”?

This is one of those things you’ve likely seen on Social Media, Facebook, Twitter & Google adverts.

For British counsellors (two “l”s) there is no such thing as a licensure scheme. After achieving qualification we counsellors can register with one of the dozen private membership clubs (there are no “governing bodies” for counsellors) that have been recognised by the Professional Standards Authority. Later, as an option, we might work towards accreditation with that same membership club (eg having added a minimum of 450 supervised practice hours, written several essays, paid lots of money and having a handful of anonymous peers agree that we’ve demonstrated a level of competency).

Dean Richardson’s post-nominal letters are: MNCS(Accred/Reg) standing for “Member of the National Counselling Society”, “Accredited” and “Registrant”. This means that having qualified with his Diploma in Psychodynamic Counselling, and Post Graduate Diploma in Psychodynamic/Systemic Couple Counselling, he’s fully qualified, registered in the UK and accredited 👍🏻.

Nevertheless, despite the adverts appearing on Social Media there is still no such thing as a Licensed Counselor (sic) in the United Kingdom! I’ve written more about this in my blogpost here…

Licensed British Counsellor

About Dean Richardson MNCS(Accred/Reg)

You could choose any counsellor…

Given that this will be the most intimate and vulnerable you could be with your partner(s), you would want a skilled professional whose expertise you could trust, and whose focus would be upon your distinct relationship. Your couple or group relationship will be in good hands with Dean. He works from Great Britain, is Independent of "box 'em/shift 'em" therapy services and identifies as a gay couple counsellor. He's also easily payable in pounds sterling! Dean already had an impressive 14 years actual video webcam experience way before the first British emergency began (when suddenly counsellors added a Video option to their portfolio, having not practiced so previously! 🤔).

What makes Dean a Distinct Counsellor

  • Dean is sensitive and effective to your sexuality / gender-identity and intimate ways of relating to each other.
  • You'll discover quickly that Dean is an informed member of your own community.
  • Dean demonstrates adept skills with lesbian, gay, bisexual, asexual, fluid, mixed sexuality and same-or-mixed gender relationships having over 22 years expertise as a therapist.
  • Dean avoids the role of "all-knowing expert." Experts do not learn and adapt to new situations (such as your distinct relationship). Experts simply instruct using a pre-programmed approach 🤔.
  • Dean speaks plain English (and can swear like a virtuoso if you like, or not at all if you prefer). He works cooperatively with your relationship (no unnecessary silence, or just "hmms...").
  • Dean is an accredited member of The National Counselling Society. Accreditation is a valued recognition of his substantial expertise, originally awarded 12 years ago from another professional organisation. He is a member of the Psychotherapy and Counselling Union of Great Britain.
  • Dean is a British Counsellor working from the South of England. Unlike other counselling services operating from abroad 😲 Dean is actually registered, accredited, insured & supervised from within England (not from abroad).

If any of this resonates with you and your partner(s), you should probably meet with the the Online, Gay Relationship, Video Counsellor Dean Richardson MNCS(Accred/Reg) for yourself.

 

Dean focuses on LGBT/QIA+ relationships as a specialty in therapy. He works with individuals, couples and small groups. Plus, he's qualified to a postgraduate level (Chichester PG Diploma in Psychodynamic / Systemic Couple Counselling, IGA National Foundation in Group Counselling) as a private practice counsellor*.

(*Note: not all counsellors, particularly those who are trained by common "Individual" Counselling qualifications, have such specific qualifications for working with couples or groups. Nor do they have experience in working with therapeutic relationships. Such counsellors may try, perhaps out of misplaced goodwill, to employ "individual" techniques but the couple or group find that the approach is ineffective. This is simply because your relationship is not part of the counsellor's primary theoretical framework nor rationale. A couple is not: "individual-counselling-multiplied-by-two." Remember to always ask your potential counsellor: "what qualifies you to work with our relationship?" and trust your instincts based on the responses you hear.

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Member of the British Psychotherapy and Counselling Union
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Private Relationship Counselling exclusively for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Mixed & Queer Couples and Established Polyamorous Groups - serving the UK Nationwide over Zoom & Skype, plus locations in and around central Havant, Petersfield to Waterlooville, Cosham to Portsmouth & Southsea, Southampton to Chichester, Fareham to Gosport, Hayling Island, Emsworth, Westbourne, Rowland's Castle, stretching westwards to Bournemouth and eastwards towards Brighton & Hove. For local residents anywhere in between and regularly further afield!

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