Do we offer Better Help than Others?

If the primary aim of relationship counselling is to assist gay men, lesbian women, bisexual people and those in mixed-sexuality partnerships, what kind of foundations need to be in place to offer help that’s better than others?

This counselling service is for your distinct relationship. It’s not a one-size-fits-all service. There are no instructions that, if you follow to the letter, will cure your relationship conflicts.

Instead, this service develops a bespoke approach that many of my clients respond to better than manualised therapy. This approach helps because the therapy becomes designed around your relationship’s distinct conflicts and relationship struggles.

You’re won’t go through this process alone – as Dean Richardson will there with you every session, helping to transform triggers and arguments into helpful knowledge.

Better help for gay men in an intimate relationship

A Systemic Approach to Better Couple Therapy

  • Curiosity (initiated through Counselling)… leading to  →  New Information.
  • New Information… leading to  →  New Options.
  • New Options… leading to  →  Negotiating / Making New Choices.
  • New Choices… leading to  →  Transforming the Relationship (through informed empowerment).
  • Transformation underway (partners consider leaving counselling).

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Better (Re-)Solutions that Help your Intimate Relationships

Let’s look at the core of what’s on offer via :-

  • Your Counsellor – Dean Richardson MNCS(Accred/Reg) – has over 22 years counselling experience.
  • He was practising Video Counselling long before (aka 14 years) others recently added their service. 
  • Dean has qualifications in Family Systems therapy (which helps us to understand where a relationship is going wrong) and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy (which helps us to understand some of the glitches a person may develop).
  • Dean is an actual gay couple counsellor.
  • He specialises in counselling for gay men, lesbian women, bisexual and mixed-sexuality partnerships.

Spotting any distinguishing features, yet?

BONUS: this is not only better help than other (more generalised) counselling services or private counsellors in the UK offer. The couple actually continue their own therapy process after they leave counselling. Establishing their independence from the counsellor and eliminating any expectation that they have to return in the future “top up” sessions.

Video Counselling Helps Better than In-Person Counselling?

A common assumption is that “in-person” counselling is better than video counselling.

OK – let’s think about this.

Perhaps it’s the unfamiliarity with video conference technology like Zoom or Skype.

A long time ago people considered in-person conversations far better than telephone calls. After all, on the telephone you can’t see the person you’re talking with! People had to discover how the new technology helped better than the previous ways.

Modern Day Telecommunications 

In the modern age, video counselling – especially in the hands of someone with years of experience – can make remote therapy a breeze. You have the same theoretical frameworks (which inform the therapist) in place. You’re all able to talk to each other in real-time. We use equipment that most people have nowadays (Laptops, Smartphones, home broadband connection).

For many LGBT+ couples and groups, Zoom and Skype video counselling offers much better help and experience than travelling to their counsellor’s office once a week.

Zoom or Skype Better for your Counselling Arrangements

Physical Office Location

When counselling at a counsellor's physical location or office:-

  • You leave home half-an-hour (?) early.
  • You drive to the area, find a parking space, pay for parking, leave the car & walk to the consultation room.
  • You wait in the waiting room (or outside locked gates) until the appointment time.
  • You work for 50 minutes.
  • Finally, you leave the counsellor's office to make the journey back home.

Real-time Video Conferencing

When counselling using real-time video technology:

  • You sit in front of your computer (tablet or smartphone) around 5 minutes before the appointment time.
  • At the session time your video kicks in and the counsellor is there.
  • You work for 50 minutes.
  • At the end you put the kettle on 👍🏻.

Does a British Service Offer Better Help than from Abroad?

Some non-British counselling services want your business.

You’re reading those adverts on Facebook & Google. The service looks interesting, but there’s something a little disconcerting that you can’t quite put your finger upon.

  • Could it be the spelling errors? (“Counselor” instead of “Counsellor”)
  • Could it be the phrases used to describe counselors (sic) that seem unfamiliar to a British audience? (“Licensed Counselor” – which isn’t a phrase UK counsellors use).

The adverts seems to suggest they will offer you a form of better help than others closer to home.

Whatever it is that’s not sitting right with you, ask yourself: is this a service from a Counsellor who is registered in Great Britain? Is it a counsellor who specialises in the relationship needs of LGBT relationships? Is this a counsellor who has been working over Internet Video for nearly two decades and has over two decades expertise in counselling.

If your answer is: YES … you’re probably already looking at this website! 👍🏻


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Be Aware of non-British Online Therapy Services

The Internet makes accessing people living in different parts of the world very easy.

It also makes online services easily accessible.

This means that therapy services – located overseas – are in the market for your business.

Some of them aren’t being transparent about being from countries other than the UK.

Prepare yourself. Read my article: “How to spot Online Counselling Services from Abroad”.

Better than Overseas Counselling Services

About Dean Richardson MNCS(Accred/Reg)

You could choose any counsellor…

Given that this will be the most intimate and vulnerable you could be with your partner(s), you would want a skilled professional whose expertise you could trust, and whose focus would be upon your distinct relationship. Your couple or group relationship will be in good hands with Dean. He works from Great Britain, is Independent of "box 'em/shift 'em" therapy services and identifies as a gay couple counsellor. He's also easily payable in pounds sterling! Dean already had an impressive 14 years actual video webcam experience way before the first British emergency began (when suddenly counsellors added a Video option to their portfolio, having not practiced so previously! 🤔).

What makes Dean a Distinct Counsellor

  • Dean is sensitive and effective to your sexuality / gender-identity and intimate ways of relating to each other.
  • You'll discover quickly that Dean is an informed member of your own community.
  • Dean demonstrates adept skills with lesbian, gay, bisexual, asexual, fluid, mixed sexuality and same-or-mixed gender relationships having over 22 years expertise as a therapist.
  • Dean avoids the role of "all-knowing expert." Experts do not learn and adapt to new situations (such as your distinct relationship). Experts simply instruct using a pre-programmed approach 🤔.
  • Dean speaks plain English (and can swear like a virtuoso if you like, or not at all if you prefer). He works cooperatively with your relationship (no unnecessary silence, or just "hmms...").
  • Dean is an accredited member of The National Counselling Society. Accreditation is a valued recognition of his substantial expertise, originally awarded 12 years ago from another professional organisation. He is a member of the Psychotherapy and Counselling Union of Great Britain.
  • Dean is a British Counsellor working from the South of England. Unlike other counselling services operating from abroad 😲 Dean is actually registered, accredited, insured & supervised from within England (not from abroad).

If any of this resonates with you and your partner(s), you should probably meet with the the Online, Gay Relationship, Video Counsellor Dean Richardson MNCS(Accred/Reg) for yourself.


Dean focuses on LGBT/QIA+ relationships as a specialty in therapy. He works with individuals, couples and small groups. Plus, he's qualified to a postgraduate level (Chichester PG Diploma in Psychodynamic / Systemic Couple Counselling, IGA National Foundation in Group Counselling) as a private practice counsellor*.

(*Note: not all counsellors, particularly those who are trained by common "Individual" Counselling qualifications, have such specific qualifications for working with couples or groups. Nor do they have experience in working with therapeutic relationships. Such counsellors may try, perhaps out of misplaced goodwill, to employ "individual" techniques but the couple or group find that the approach is ineffective. This is simply because your relationship is not part of the counsellor's primary theoretical framework nor rationale. A couple is not: "individual-counselling-multiplied-by-two." Remember to always ask your potential counsellor: "what qualifies you to work with our relationship?" and trust your instincts based on the responses you hear.

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Private Relationship Counselling exclusively for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Mixed & Queer Couples and Established Polyamorous Groups - serving the UK Nationwide over Zoom & Skype, plus locations in and around central Havant, Petersfield to Waterlooville, Cosham to Portsmouth & Southsea, Southampton to Chichester, Fareham to Gosport, Hayling Island, Emsworth, Westbourne, Rowland's Castle, stretching westwards to Bournemouth and eastwards towards Brighton & Hove. For local residents anywhere in between and regularly further afield!

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